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Ilikehazing's references to class and old money just really wants to make me peg him as Alabama Old Row. Perhaps Ole Miss. |
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I'm not sure if it's a cliche, i think its a quote from someone but sure. It doesn't really matter if it's a cliche, correct?
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did you all get beat up in elementary and middle school? You all take greek life too serious and probably still have your ritual and pledge manuals memorized. Go get laid.
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I'm glad you love your hubby...although I'm not quite sure about the "scratch that itch" offer. :eek: |
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Well, if i am the most "racist" on this board, that speaks to the credibility of this board, as I have said nothing which is truly that. To the Valk person, sorry you don't agree. It is not racism, as you would probably not get a bid either. We don't want a diverse group of people, we want an elite group of people. I know many in northern fraternities would consider the south as a shoeless, clueless place, but I think those would be mistaken. Some of the best chapters in the country are in the south, where should I start...SAE, Sigma Nu, Theta Chi, Phi Tau, KA, etc... In researching this, you would find many prominant greek alumni who come from these "backwards" places....(try hmmmm...congress). Several of the country's wealthiest areas are also below the Mason, which I will be glad to discuss should that become a point of contention. The fact is, while many whine about the south being ignorant and "shoeless" (or whatever the insult is these days...)....We'll stick to our staples of Cole Haan and Allen Edmonds, although our lack of k-swiss will probably leave us out of whats cool.
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I feel sure you did not say anything that you intended as racist, nor do I question your intent. The problem with any Internet communication is that the reader sees only the words actually typed without voice inflection or any other context (including knowledge of you), so while I don't think you intended any racism, I also think that others could read what you wrote and reasonably infer some racism. The reality is that this is a topic that taps into a lot of underlying and deep feelings for everybody, regardless of what "side" they are on -- sensitivity (to be clear, I do not mean oversensitivity) to racism in all of its forms, direct and subtle, and sensitivity to an anti-Southern bias. Bottom line is it helps to stay clear of generalizations -- whether of "popular black culture" (which can mean lots of different things to lots of different people) or of Southern Greek life, your description of which really doesn't match what one would find at lots of top schools in the South. |
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People (often white people) consistently call others racist on this board when it is not the case, and through this "Boy who cries wolf" mentality, reduce racism to nothing more than a cliche. -Rudey |
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-Rudey |
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I never recommend political correctness. But I do recommend precision with language when there is a reasonable chance that one might not be clearly understood. like on an Internet forum. If someone is going to be ticked by what you said, at least do your best to make sure they're ticked by something you meant to say. |
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-Rudey |
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