I am in love with the idea of sending people an etiquette book...maybe with a little inscription in the cover so it's not returnable too. ;)

I got invited to a wedding shower this summer. It was for my boyfriend's mom's cousin's kid. Yes, really. I got invited because I met the cousin for the first time at my boyfriend's sister's shower. I didn't go because it was the weekend before the bar exam and I had never met the bride or groom. We didn't get invited to the wedding because I didn't go to the shower. Is it bad I was excited I didn't get invited to the wedding? ;) I know it's "bad form" to invite someone to the shower and not invite them to the wedding but I was actually quite happy about it.

Can we do it if the wedding isn't tacky per se, and they didn't break any major etiquette rules, but it's just kinda ghetto? Because that would be awesome.