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mulattogyrl 05-18-2007 10:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1450051)
In my chapter of APO, the only rule was that Brothers couldn't date pledges.

But once you crossed, it was on like popcorn.

Would it be TMI if I said a few brothers practically descended on me within minutes of crossing? Ole pervs!

But anyway, I would also be curious to know if LGBT orgs had a no-dating rule.

LOL @ your siggie. I'm curious about it too because of course we have lesbian women in our orgs, and from what I've experienced, many times (but not always) it's like those from your chapter are looked at as 'sisters', so it's kinda like incest, lol, but other sorors...oh well, LOL. It's an interesting dynamic though.

AlphaFrog 05-18-2007 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1450051)
In my chapter of APO, the only rule was that Brothers couldn't date pledges.

But once you crossed, it was on like popcorn.

Would it be TMI if I said a few brothers practically descended on me within minutes of crossing? Ole pervs!

But anyway, I would also be curious to know if LGBT orgs had a no-dating rule.

It stated on one page that they did (I think FAQs) have a rule against dating (or at least, as I gathered, it is discouraged).

Now, I'm not an expert on homosexual statistics...but isn't there already a limited dating pool??? And if you can't date your "sisters" who are otherwise probably people in your limited dating pool...wouldn't that make it even more difficult to meet people?:confused:

Dionysus 05-18-2007 01:28 PM

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Originally Posted by mulattogyrl (Post 1450038)
LMAO! This made me laugh.

I wonder if they have rules about dating each other if they're in the same chapter. I mean, it seems like it could cause problems. Just like certain jobs, there are rules about dating because if you break up, it could be difficult to continue working together in a civil fashion. Hopefully someone will answer my question, LOL.

As Senusret says, it is allowed in APO. People date and sometimes eff like crazy in my chapter, and has caused a LOT of problems in the past.

Dionysus 05-18-2007 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by mulattogyrl (Post 1450055)
LOL @ your siggie. I'm curious about it too because of course we have lesbian women in our orgs, and from what I've experienced, many times (but not always) it's like those from your chapter are looked at as 'sisters', so it's kinda like incest, lol, but other sorors...oh well, LOL. It's an interesting dynamic though.

That's the way I view it - incestuous. I've definately had crushes on guys, but I tried to block it out of my mind. Apparently, I'm in the minority who views it as such. :confused:

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 1450065)
It stated on one page that they did (I think FAQs) have a rule against dating (or at least, as I gathered, it is discouraged).

Now, I'm not an expert on homosexual statistics...but isn't there already a limited dating pool??? And if you can't date your "sisters" who are otherwise probably people in your limited dating pool...wouldn't that make it even more difficult to meet people?:confused:

I don't know about other people, I actually get hit on by more women than men (no, I don't look like the women in those sites). The percentage of women I wish to return the favor, is an entirely different story :( There is a limited dating pool, but apparently some of them can pick you out in a crowd, even if you don't fit the stone butch woman or flamboyant gay man stereotype. The same thing happens to my gay and bi friends.

As for partners, it seems that some of them go through as many partners as straight folks do.

But, I agree, with the limited numbers, I don't see how it is that possible.

christiangirl 05-18-2007 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 1450065)
It stated on one page that they did (I think FAQs) have a rule against dating (or at least, as I gathered, it is discouraged).

"7. Do I want sisters or sex partners? If you think that joining Omicron Epsilon Pi is going to help your romantic situation then you are DEAD WRONG. Omicron Epsilon Pi Sorority Inc DOES NOT in any shape form or fashion allows its members to fraternize in anyway that is deemed unsuitable."


I wonder how on earth they enforce that? It's probably like the policy on relationships in a management area....it's just a policy with no way to know who broke it or not (unless someone gets caught).

KAPital PHINUst 05-18-2007 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1450051)

Would it be TMI if I said a few brothers practically descended on me within minutes of crossing? Ole pervs!

*with a wince and a raised eyebrow*

In a word, yes.

Your post is rather X-rated (and the X stands for "Xtra") *lol*

ladygreek 05-18-2007 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by christiangirl (Post 1450301)
"7. Do I want sisters or sex partners? If you think that joining Omicron Epsilon Pi is going to help your romantic situation then you are DEAD WRONG. Omicron Epsilon Pi Sorority Inc DOES NOT in any shape form or fashion allows its members to fraternize in anyway that is deemed unsuitable."


I wonder how on earth they enforce that? It's probably like the policy on relationships in a management area....it's just a policy with no way to know who broke it or not (unless someone gets caught).

And what is unsuitable?

pinkies up 05-18-2007 11:11 PM

[QUOTE=Senusret I;1450051]



Would it be TMI if I said a few brothers practically descended on me within minutes of crossing? Ole pervs!QUOTE]


Quit showing off:p

IncontRHOllable 05-19-2007 02:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Dionysus (Post 1449882)

:eek: This is too much....

Senusret I 05-19-2007 08:18 AM

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Originally Posted by pinkies up (Post 1450621)


Quit showing off:p

LMAO I didn't mean to.... I wasn't even hot 8 years ago!

Dionysus 05-19-2007 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1450742)
LMAO I didn't mean to.... I wasn't even hot 8 years ago!

Yeah right. ;)

DIVA1177 05-20-2007 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by IncontRHOllable (Post 1450704)
:eek: This is too much....

I'm trippin. I thought I was looking at a fraternity page until I saw boobies(LOL). Gay? Whatever but what is the appeal in looking and acting "male"? Eh...maybe I'm lost.:(

mulattogyrl 05-20-2007 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Dionysus (Post 1450776)
Yeah right. ;)

LOL! That's just what I thought when I read it.

Phrozen1ne 06-27-2007 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Dionysus (Post 1449882)

I'm definitely not feeling that 2nd link. Last time I checked I didn't think we were calling aullixary groups within the org frat!

Educatingblue 07-06-2007 08:44 AM

It's a very small world. Please tell me why I recognized one of the "girls" in this http://docs.google.com/View?docid=dg88cgsw_6gcsc47 link and I took the liberty of emailing her and see what's up. I will keep y'all posted.


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