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Soul D-Psi-ple 07-14-2006 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by kerry4prez
i like this guy shinerbock because he isnt rude like you people. it was a simple question that i asked.

Shut up, you're fake.

shinerbock 07-14-2006 03:40 PM

I don't like anyone on this board. I come on here because I love conflict.

kerry4prez 07-14-2006 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Soul D-Psi-ple
Shut up, you're fake.

and what about me is fake? why would i do that?

Drolefille 07-14-2006 03:49 PM

No, we're not trying to look cool to each other. We're mocking you for typing like a teenybopper and claiming to pledge a fraternity in July but you aren't proud enough to share your letters.

/if you have them

Soul D-Psi-ple 07-14-2006 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by kerry4prez
and what about me is fake? just because you guys are a$$holes to people you dont even know because it makes you look cool to all of your online friends doesnt mean im fake. why would i do that?

Outside of my Frat and Sorors, I have no friends on here.

Drolefille 07-14-2006 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Soul D-Psi-ple
Outside of my Frat and Sorors, I have no friends on here.

Aww I'll be your friend....

Tom Earp 07-14-2006 03:58 PM

? how does one "pledge" a fraternity in July?:rolleyes:

? Soul D-Psi-ple, why no friends on here?

It is a two way street.

Some people are nice and some aren't. Just read the posts, the morons stand out very quickly.:eek:

shinerbock 07-14-2006 03:59 PM

We could be friends, but I don't think you'll like me.

kerry4prez 07-14-2006 04:01 PM

wow, you guys interpret "just pledged" as pledging in july? maybe i pledged in april and i consider that very recent.

Drolefille 07-14-2006 04:03 PM

So 99% of the people here are dumb, and you're the smart one?

At least I can capitalize. And yeah we do assume it means July because you haven't denied it until now.

kerry4prez 07-14-2006 04:06 PM

so you were assuming that what i say is true because i havent denied your replies? failure to prove something on my part does not make you right.

Soul D-Psi-ple 07-14-2006 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by kerry4prez
wow, you guys interpret "just pledged" as pledging in july? maybe i pledged in april and i consider that very recent. some of your comments are dumb.


What organization are you a member of?

What is the chapter designation and the institution where your charter is located?

When did you cross?

Drolefille 07-14-2006 04:08 PM

No, we're assuming what you say doesn't make sense.

So... Alpha or Beta chapter???

shinerbock 07-14-2006 04:09 PM

does cross=initiation?

Soul D-Psi-ple 07-14-2006 04:11 PM

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Originally Posted by shinerbock
does cross=initiation?

Yes

kerry4prez 07-14-2006 04:22 PM

am i accused of a crime here? why the interrogation?

kerry4prez 07-14-2006 04:26 PM

beta chapter, and i havent "crossed" yet because im a neo.

Soul D-Psi-ple 07-14-2006 04:54 PM

Neophytes have already been initiated or they have already "crossed" into their respective organization.

shinerbock 07-14-2006 04:56 PM

I think in some places neophyte means someone who is done with pledgeship but not yet a brother.

Drolefille 07-14-2006 04:58 PM

It's possible his org uses pledge and initiation or new member/associate member and member..

But he seems rather.. confused..

Oh and there really isn't usually anything between "pledge" and "member" as it were...

Soul D-Psi-ple 07-14-2006 05:02 PM

Ahhhhh I see.

Tom Earp 07-14-2006 06:18 PM

Do You really?:confused:

shinerbock 07-14-2006 06:25 PM

who, me?

kerry4prez 07-15-2006 02:45 AM

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Originally Posted by shinerbock
I think in some places neophyte means someone who is done with pledgeship but not yet a brother.

thats how we use it. sorry i dont study up on the interpretation of "crossing" at different GLOs around the country.

jon1856 08-08-2006 10:44 PM

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Originally Posted by DeltAlum
People do get killed during basic. But not that many.

I had to think about that a little.

Certainly the military is in the hazing business, but the hazers (DI's, etc) may be a little more mature than the average fraternity man (or sorority woman). They all have several years of military training themselves which probably creates some amount of that maturity. Additionally, while sometimes calling for "creativity" on the part of the DI, the military has the training down to a science and many years of "experience." The people doing the hazing are, for the most part, highly disciplined -- not the case in an organization of 18-22 year old college students away from home for the first time.

Changing gears, of course I was hazed during the pledge process. In those days, everyone was.

Over the years, I've been an advisor and division officer, and I can see absolutely no indication that physical hazing and mental distress somehow creates "closer" relationships or better pledge classes.

However, I do feel strongly that the definition of hazing needs to be honed. Some laws and rules are so broad as to be ridiculous -- but it is my opinion that the reason for these far ranging rules is that when allowed some level of hazing, some chapters and members don't know when to stop and things get terribly out of hand.

Thank you so much for proving a point I made else where Delta

jon1856 08-08-2006 11:01 PM

All States Anti-Hazing Laws
 
Just found this site-has links to all states (6 do not have ) with anti-hazing laws. Can be a rather interesting read for some here.....
http://www.stophazing.org/laws.html

Along with this one:
http://www.hazing.cornell.edu/myths.html

Which ends with this:
Myth: Hazing must be okay if the military does it.
Reality: The U.S. military does not, in fact, condone hazing practices. The military does engage in a unique type of training for dangerous military operations. This training is conducted by professionals to prepare military personnel for putting their lives on the line for their country. According to the Dept. of the Army's TRADOC Regulation 350-6: "Hazing is strictly prohibited" and is "an offense punishable under the Uniform Code of Military Justice.”

jon1856 08-08-2006 11:19 PM

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Originally Posted by macallan25
Sorry, but I disagree. I know tons of chapters of Phi Delt that have been caught and none of them have "lost their charters."

Brother Tex,
I personally know of one that did....

jon1856 08-08-2006 11:26 PM

[quote=ktsnake]Interesting stuff. Perhaps a current or former national officer could inform us here. How difficult would it be for an organization to purchase liability insurance if it did not have extremely strong anti-hazing policies and programming?
KTSNAKE-run a search on hazing and you will find your answer. I just saw an article that IIRC had at least one GLO flying naked due to past acts....

jon1856 08-08-2006 11:37 PM

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Originally Posted by macallan25
I base my claims that the strongest chapters are in the South because I have traveled to many differenct campuses across the country and have been to leadership schools for SAE in which representatives from all over the country come.....and I have listened to and heard exactly what people from the North and elsewhere think about us, and chapters from schools like Alabama, UGA, Ole Miss, etc. To be completely honest they were all pretty in awe.

Brother Tex;
Seems as if you and I could have crossed paths at some point...
But I was never put in awe by any given Chapter in any given region...And the ones that did speak of hazing were not put on my top 10 list....

jon1856 08-08-2006 11:52 PM

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Originally Posted by shinerbock
You're right, there are insurance concerns. Thankfully, my fraternity never made a habit out of telling our nationals or insurance co. everything we were involved in. It has everything to do with political correctness. Thats why regulations go beyond the physical. The current idea of hazing often includes anything that makes a pledge feel uncomfortable or stressed or embarassed. Its great that we protect these 18 year old boys from those things, because God knows they'll never in life face periods where they are uncomfortable, stressed or embarassed.

I left a job because of many reasons-including what could be called hazing/harassment. And found a better one in a few days.

Now, if I was in College what would my choices have been? Change schools, or stay as a GDI or stay in a place that was against everything in my personal and professional life and beliefs?

Or call in the Dean of Students and National and an Attorney......

ICEBATHSAREFUN 12-10-2007 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Tom Earp (Post 1246698)
Why is Baylor such a poor Greek School.

Seems that they have a lot of GLOs there.

Baylor has a bad Greek system because the administration at Baylor will not allow there to be a good Greek system. Fraternities get suspended for ridiculous reason that would never happen at other schools. Also Baylor did not have national fraternities until the 70's.

jon1856 12-10-2007 11:32 PM

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Originally Posted by ICEBATHSAREFUN (Post 1561141)
Baylor has a bad Greek system because the administration at Baylor will not allow there to be a good Greek system. Fraternities get suspended for ridiculous reason that would never happen at other schools. Also Baylor did not have national fraternities until the 70's.

Details and definitions would be very helpful in your "cause".
General comments as you made say really nothing at all.

ICEBATHSAREFUN 12-11-2007 02:26 AM

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Originally Posted by jon1856 (Post 1561168)
Details and definitions would be very helpful in your "cause".
General comments as you made say really nothing at all.

I would think that saying that Baylor did not affiliate with national fraternities until the 1970's would be more than a general comment. There is a freshmen girls dormitory at Baylor Collins Hall. The woman who donated the money to fund the buliding told Baylor she would only donate the money if the University guarenteed her they would never build Greek houses on Baylor's campus. So there are not any houses on Baylor's campus, and never will be. Baylor is an extremley conservative school, and there is nothing wrong with that, but it doesn't make for a good Greek system.

ICEBATHSAREFUN 12-11-2007 02:31 AM

and I really what my "cause" is?? I'm new on this board and was browsing through some old threads and someone asked a question about Baylor's Greek system so I answered.

jon1856 12-11-2007 07:40 AM

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Originally Posted by ICEBATHSAREFUN (Post 1561250)
and I really what my "cause" is?? I'm new on this board and was browsing through some old threads and someone asked a question about Baylor's Greek system so I answered.

You are new and just about all your post are on/about hazing and RM.
I would do more than browse the RM threads.
Read them.

txcutie 12-15-2007 09:40 PM

First of all, I go to Baylor as well and I do not believe they have a "bad" Greek system. Granted, there are no houses for neither fraternities nor sororities, but there are pros and cons to having/not having houses. It does promote a more unified campus, but there are always Greek events/parties going on all the time on and off campus that tons of people get involved in. Christmas on 5th Street is a huge tradition sponsored by a local fraternity, and the Homecoming floats are a big deal.

Tom Earp 12-16-2007 11:51 AM

I beleive Baylor is a denominatial school and in many cases, they do not embrace Greek Organizations while others do. A prime example is William-Jewell in KC metro area.

They have had GLOs for many years and Fraternities have had houses and they are in the process of working on a Sorority housing area. So, they are one working with GLOs. Of course while it is much smaller than Baylor, they have a huge % of GLO members of total school population.

As to events sponsored by GLOs, it is a common thing. Many are involved in campus politics, sports, higher than average GPA, and of course, where would Homecoming parades be with out the GLO floats?

Greeks over the years have stepped all over them selves and have left a bad taste on many campuses. But it seems that the GLOs are making a resurgence and are once again growing with the advent of outlawing hazing which caused most of the problems along with to many loud parties with drinking involved.:(

Many times GLOs have to prove themselves worthy to be accepted by strict schools.

Time will tell!

Boodleboy322 12-16-2007 06:37 PM

Baylor
 
Txcutie,

I concur with your statement. I've visited the chapter at Baylor and there are indeed a lot of good things happening out there in light of there not being any houses.

Fraternally,

Boodleboy322



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Originally Posted by txcutie (Post 1564036)
First of all, I go to Baylor as well and I do not believe they have a "bad" Greek system. Granted, there are no houses for neither fraternities nor sororities, but there are pros and cons to having/not having houses. It does promote a more unified campus, but there are always Greek events/parties going on all the time on and off campus that tons of people get involved in. Christmas on 5th Street is a huge tradition sponsored by a local fraternity, and the Homecoming floats are a big deal.


ICEBATHSAREFUN 12-17-2007 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by txcutie (Post 1564036)
First of all, I go to Baylor as well and I do not believe they have a "bad" Greek system. Granted, there are no houses for neither fraternities nor sororities, but there are pros and cons to having/not having houses. It does promote a more unified campus, but there are always Greek events/parties going on all the time on and off campus that tons of people get involved in. Christmas on 5th Street is a huge tradition sponsored by a local fraternity, and the Homecoming floats are a big deal.

I guess I shouldn't say Baylor has a bad greek system but rather a "different" greek system. Two of my older brothers were greeks at Baylor one an sae and one a phi delt. I've just heard them complain a lot about the way administration treats fraternities. So my knowledge on the matter is based on what they have told me about Baylor's greek system.

jon1856 12-17-2007 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by ICEBATHSAREFUN (Post 1564828)
I guess I shouldn't say Baylor has a bad Greek system but rather a "different" Greek system. Two of my older brothers were Greeks at Baylor one an SAE and one a Phi Delt. I've just heard them complain a lot about the way administration treats fraternities. So my knowledge on the matter is based on what they have told me about Baylor's Greek system.

Very few Greeks, IMVHO and experience, will say great things about their schools administration.

And everyone will vent at something.

And all campus's and Greek systems are going to be different in some form or another.
May campus was very different; our houses were part of the housing system. The Greek groups had exclusive use agreements with the school.
We paid dorm fees and had campus kitchens.


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