GreekChat.com Forums

GreekChat.com Forums (https://greekchat.com/gcforums/index.php)
-   Greek Life (https://greekchat.com/gcforums/forumdisplay.php?f=24)
-   -   UGa Chi Phis declared 'open season' on black women? (https://greekchat.com/gcforums/showthread.php?t=80632)

DSTRen13 09-15-2006 04:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1321526)
I've pretty much not been involved in this conversation, but I do take offense to being told exactly who I identify with and such. The idea that you only identify with those inside your own race is stupid, exclusionary, and biased. And the idea that race necessarily tops ethnicity, especially in white people, is equally stupid.

I don't think anyone's saying who you personally identify with - there's no way any of us could possibly know that. However, in American society, people looking at you will identify you by race before they identify you by ethnicity. That's a fact. It's also a fact that the race they identify you with - white - grants you certain privileges in American society. It's not only a matter of the privileges you choose to exercise or reject, but also inherent privilege involved with being white and being a part of the majority which currently and historically has held the power in this country.

I think one thing that is important to remember, however, is that when ethnicity does become an issue with white people, it can often be perceived negatively. Especially in the case of Italian-Americans, who are often stereotyped and treated unfairly by the media. So I can see how this would be an important issue for you.

DSTCHAOS 09-15-2006 04:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1321526)
I've pretty much not been involved in this conversation, but I do take offense to being told exactly who I identify with and such.

You said you identify with exactly what I said you identify with. Race-white; Ethnicity-Italian American. Problem? Better yet, read "How the Irish Became White" by Noel Ignatiev. Then you'd see that this topic isn't about YOU. ;)

Quote:

Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1321526)
The idea that you only identify with those inside your own race is stupid, exclusionary, and biased.

No one said that.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1321526)
And the idea that race necessarily tops ethnicity, especially in white people, is equally stupid.

Congratulations on finding something to be offended by. :) People can moan and groan all they want to just to prove a point in a thread but if a camera was to follow you around everyday of your life, you would see the truth for what it is.

DSTRen13 09-15-2006 04:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1321551)
Better yet, read "How the Irish Became White" by Noel Ignatiev.

Everyone should read this.

DSTCHAOS 09-15-2006 04:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DSTRen13 (Post 1321550)
I think one thing that is important to remember, however, is that when ethnicity does become an issue with white people, it can often be perceived negatively. Especially in the case of Italian-Americans, who are often stereotyped and treated unfairly by the media. So I can see how this would be an important issue for you.


I agree.

But Italian Americans are still given the opportunity to either downplay or "up"play their Italian heritage. Either case they can identify as white and receive the same privileges as other whites in most social contexts. Italian Americans can even receive the utmost privilege in places with huge concentrations of Italian Americans.

shinerbock 09-15-2006 04:48 PM

You're being ridiculous. There is very little distinction in affirmative action as it is practiced today, and diversity seeking universities. Don't believe me? Go look at the UM Supreme Court cases portrayed in the media as "affirmative action cases."

How is reverse discrimination audacious? The fact that you refuse to recognize it is pretty outrageous in my mind. What you're telling me is that its ok for a university to accept a black candidate over an equally qualified white person simply because they're black. You're right, thats not reverse discrimination at all...

As for "leveling the playing field," you'll have to look other places. White people aren't holding the black community down. I highly suspect your blaming of the problems on institutionalized racism aren't aiding the rise of the black community either.

Again, about me "implying" that all minorities are only in school in place of white people, I never even came close to saying that. Try as you might, me saying that it HAS happened is in no way similar to me saying it ALWAYS happens. I figured you two would understand that, but perhaps my confidence has been misplaced.

Drolefille 09-15-2006 04:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1321551)
You said you identify with exactly what I said you identify with. Race-white; Ethnicity-Italian American. Problem? Better yet, read "How the Irish Became White" by Noel Ignatiev. Then you'd see that this topic isn't about YOU. ;)



No one said that.



Congratulations on finding something to be offended by. :) People can moan and groan all they want to just to prove a point in a thread but if a camera was to follow you around everyday of your life, you would see the truth for what it is.

I'm not offended. I said I think it's dumb.

I know it's not all about "ME." But us wops have feelings too. Ethnic groups haven't exactly chosen when they get to integrate into mainstream American culture.

Saying things like "they can identify as white" and thus recieve white priviliges implies that it is a choice. I don't identify as "white" White means nothing to me. I identify as Italian and as American. My children will likely identify as German and Italian or as just plain American. American does not equal white it means that I feel attached to the country I was born in.

/And that I like Americanized versions of other countries' foods.
//I'd still be a wop in some eyes.

DSTCHAOS 09-15-2006 05:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1321582)
I'm not offended. I know it's not all about "ME."

Good. :)

DSTCHAOS 09-15-2006 05:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shinerbock (Post 1321574)
portrayed in the media

Exactly.

Quote:

Originally Posted by shinerbock (Post 1321574)
What you're telling me is that its ok for a university to accept a black candidate over an equally qualified white person simply because they're black. You're right, thats not reverse discrimination at all...

Then we agree. :p

Quote:

Originally Posted by shinerbock (Post 1321574)
White people aren't holding the black community down. I highly suspect your blaming of the problems on institutionalized racism aren't aiding the rise of the black community either.

You're leaping again. If I didn't type it, don't assume it. I always say exactly what I mean and mean exactly what I say because I know I'm not typing to my colleagues. ;)

Quote:

Originally Posted by shinerbock (Post 1321574)
Again, about me "implying" that all minorities are only in school in place of white people, I never even came close to saying that. Try as you might, me saying that it HAS happened is in no way similar to me saying it ALWAYS happens. I figured you two would understand that, but perhaps my confidence has been misplaced.

Well don't get snippy because it's not that serious. You leaped without explaining your leap. So we were left to fill in the blanks and make sense of your leap. Surely you know that your posts have never warranted a benefit of the doubt before.

starang21 09-15-2006 06:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jubilance1922 (Post 1321417)
I went to college with kids like you,

me too. usually the kids who fell at the back of the bell curve.

AKA_Monet 09-15-2006 06:34 PM

I am so confused...

Why am not amazed at little pledges from the University of Georgia showing naked women who happen to be of Afrikan descent to the public driving down the street?

shinerbock-

You know you ain't got no Black friends anyway, so what's up with the vehemenence? Sistahgirl DSTChaos just called your bluff and you need to be a man about it...

What's going to happen is you are gonna go off into a "hissy fit", "huff and puff", yell at all your little friends about Black people in Dekalb County, Stone Mountain, Georgia, where my cop, brother in law might have to take you to lockdown, 'cuz you missed your Klan rally up at the top of Stone Mountain...

If you want to hate baby, that's okay... You ain't got no game or skillz, but you can hate...

Which is probably the whole point to this pointless act. It just goes to show you that the Chi Phi pledges at UGA have no game or skillz and they have to show naked ladies to folks driving down to street to get some...

DSTCHAOS 09-15-2006 07:08 PM

Now I'm confused. :confused:

jubilance1922 09-15-2006 07:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DSTRen13 (Post 1321522)
Ah, engineering school. Where the white guys (and the professors) all assume you must be an idiot who just got in for diversity if you're black, Hispanic, or -gasp!- female. :rolleyes:

Jubilance, and all the rest of you on here who are minority women in engineering and sciences, you all take a lot of crap and you all amaze me. I could never have lasted at my engineering undergrad if I hadn't been holed up in my little liberal arts major haven, and I only have one strike against me.

You know I went to your undergrad as a grad student right?

And you're right, it definately has some characters...but there are some great folks there too.

Dionysus 09-15-2006 07:30 PM

Wow, I can't believe that you all actually had classmates that told you that crap to your face. :eek:

macallan25 09-15-2006 07:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet (Post 1321630)
I am so confused...

Why am not amazed at little pledges from the University of Georgia showing naked women who happen to be of Afrikan descent to the public driving down the street?

shinerbock-

You know you ain't got no Black friends anyway, so what's up with the vehemenence? Sistahgirl DSTChaos just called your bluff and you need to be a man about it...

What's going to happen is you are gonna go off into a "hissy fit", "huff and puff", yell at all your little friends about Black people in Dekalb County, Stone Mountain, Georgia, where my cop, brother in law might have to take you to lockdown, 'cuz you missed your Klan rally up at the top of Stone Mountain...

If you want to hate baby, that's okay... You ain't got no game or skillz, but you can hate...

Which is probably the whole point to this pointless act. It just goes to show you that the Chi Phi pledges at UGA have no game or skillz and they have to show naked ladies to folks driving down to street to get some...

Maybe you should speak proper English if you are going to try to insult him.

shinerbock 09-15-2006 08:26 PM

Seriously AKA, I have no idea what you're talking about. If you're referring to your friend attempting to justify reverse racism, then thats fine, but I'm not quite sure.
I'm not sure what you mean by "my leap," so I can't fully answer your question. As far as I'm concerned, there is no "leap" involved. Its simply that you believe a black student should get into a school before an equally qualified white person, simply because of race.

As for affirmative action, theres no use debating what it is and what it isn't. I apologize if I don't recognize your definition over the likes of CNN or MSNBC...while I give you credit for being at least marginally intelligent, I'm not sure my regard can be extended that far. I think our fundamental difference in ideology is that while I think applicants should be admitted on merit, you feel some people should be given preferential treatment. I guess we're just different.

Starang, I find your comments regarding the bell curve funny...especially since the comment you are agreeing with was a completely erroneous assumption.


All times are GMT -4. The time now is 07:05 AM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions Inc.