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Lady Pi Phi 07-19-2006 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by AKΨ_BRO@DSU
I wish I had more free time during the day to respond to what a lot of people are saying. I believe some said that in the long run I would not want to date a woman who drink because the occassional compassionate reminders would turn into nagging...no it wouldn't. Even though there are a set of standards that I hold for what the perfect women for me is, I'm not out here trying to find a "perfect woman" because 9 times out of ten she's not going to it. All I'm saying is that I understand some people are different and I wouldn't let the fact that she occassional drink get stop me from dating her...especially if I really liked her. The same goes for sex. And I don't understand why with a lot of people that are responding on here, why they couldn't get over the someone NOT doing those things. As far as the people I hang out with it varies...Non drinkers, social drinkers, alcholics....I'm just trying to figure out what's so damn good about alcohol. Personal, I've tried it various times at a very young age and I never liked the stuff. Whether it was something fruity or something as strong as Jack Daneils. It's just as self destructive as drugs, smoking and hoing in my opinion.

But that doesn't mean there aren't people out there that enjoy these things. Just because you don't understand it, doesn't make it wrong.

Marie 07-19-2006 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by KLPDaisy
There's nothing wrong with White Zin.

Cheers chica! I'ma a White Zin fan as well.

AlphaFrog 07-19-2006 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Marie
Cheers chica! I'ma a White Zin fan as well.

I like it and all, but I would never order it in a business situation or other "sophisticated" setting. If nothing else, I'll order the house blush if I'm in the mood for something like that.

Marie 07-19-2006 02:40 PM

First,

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Originally Posted by AKΨ_BRO@DSU
But, I don't want to break out of my preferance...they go hand in hand with my beliefs plus as I stated above I don't totally let them dictate who i chose to date.

Then,

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Originally Posted by AKΨ_BRO@DSU
All I'm saying is that I understand some people are different and I wouldn't let the fact that she occassional drink get stop me from dating her...especially if I really liked her. The same goes for sex.

Are you confused? You're flip flopping from "These issues are too important to me, and I can't really see myself letting them slide, but maybe." to "Yeah, it's cool. To each their own."

AlphaFrog 07-19-2006 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Marie
Are you confused? You're flip flopping from "These issues are too important to me, and I can't really see myself letting them slide, but maybe." to "Yeah, it's cool. To each their own."


Like I said...this thread is designed for reinforcement, and that is good proof. "Please tell me how awesome I am because I have superior morals."

valkyrie 07-19-2006 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog
Like I said...this thread is designed for reinforcement, and that is good proof. "Please tell me how awesome I am because I have superior morals."

I wonder if he also was hoping to find a nice 19-year-old Amish girl fresh from rumspringa who spent the past year drinking and now sees the error of her ways and by the way is really, really hot but totally waiting for the right guy before she'll have actual sex who would, like, PM him and they could go on a date to the soda fountain where they might, like, hold hands, teehee!

AlphaFrog 07-19-2006 02:58 PM

He could have dated my roommate from freshman year...but only Sun-Thur. Those were here "born again Christian" days...Fri & Sat someone carried her home from the parties. But hey, there's always bible study, that makes a great Wed. night date.

GeekyPenguin 07-19-2006 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by valkyrie
I wonder if he also was hoping to find a nice 19-year-old Amish girl fresh from rumspringa who spent the past year drinking and now sees the error of her ways and by the way is really, really hot but totally waiting for the right guy before she'll have actual sex who would, like, PM him and they could go on a date to the soda fountain where they might, like, hold hands, teehee!

Holding hands before marriage is sinful. You could get a nail fungus that way.

AlphaFrog 07-19-2006 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by GeekyPenguin
Holding hands before marriage is sinful. You could get a nail fungus that way.

And definitely don't kiss her...she could get pregnant, or get an S...I mean KTD.

Liberal_South 07-19-2006 03:01 PM

I read most of this thread, and the short answer is AKΨ_BRO@DSU, it is incredibly lame. I also find it funny that you "try to be different," I find it pathetic that you try to be different. Why don't you just be yourself and if you're different then you're different, and if not, then don't. Also, I would never date a girl that doesn't drink, or have sex. Furthermore, at some point you'll have to find yourself a virgin because you're going to suck so much and a relatively experienced person will know it and be turned off, while the virgin won't have anything to compare to. Good luck in life.

KSigkid 07-19-2006 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by AKΨ_BRO@DSU
Whether it was something fruity or something as strong as Jack Daneils.

Aww, JD isn't that strong if you have some experience. It's actually quite smooth when served on the rocks, or even neat.

AlphaFrog 07-19-2006 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by KSigkid
Aww, JD isn't that strong if you have some experience. It's actually quite smooth when served on the rocks, or even neat.

If he can't handle Pucker, I doubt he could handle Jack.

Liberal_South 07-19-2006 03:34 PM

Jack is good, but beam and coke is far better for those hot days in the football stadium.

If I ever see a black man at a bar shying away from girls and not drinking, I know it will be this guy here.

AKΨ_BRO@DSU 07-19-2006 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Marie
First,



Then,



Are you confused? You're flip flopping from "These issues are too important to me, and I can't really see myself letting them slide, but maybe." to "Yeah, it's cool. To each their own."

What I'm saying is that I'm always going to hold the standard that I prefer a woman who doesn't drink and hasn't had a whole lot of sexual partners but I won't totally just not give the girl a chance because she not what I usually prefer. If I like her for who she is but I just don't like something she does, then I would still give her a chance.It doesn't mean that now I prefer women that drink, but it means something about her out wieghs that particular standard that I have. She would have to be an exceptional person in my point of view.

AKΨ_BRO@DSU 07-19-2006 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog
So basically you started this thread for reinforcement, so people here could pat you on the back and applaud your morals?? If you don't want to be with a woman who smokes, drinks, or has sex, that's your choice. What difference does it make if someone who does smoke, drink or have sex finds you lame, if you don't want to be with them anyway??

It doesn't really matter, its how I wanted to start off this debate. Also this kinda just give me a general feel for what type of people post on this site...therefore now I know what types of topics to talk about and what topics may turn the mass majority off.


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