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DSTMystique 06-22-2007 11:23 AM

Well, I went to Grambling for undergrad (in the late 80's) and when I got down there (all the way from Michigan), I was so excited to be associated with an HBCU with so much history. My excitement wore off real soon once I saw how money was being mismanaged and how nepotism ran rampant in the administration. Don't get me wrong, I am all for hooking people up, but they need to at least be QUALIFIED for the job.

At Grambling, our President left under strange circumstances and then that started a "revolving door" of Presidents for the next 15 years. Then we all heard about the accredidation fiasco, and Gramblinites know about the "buy a brick" scam leading up to our Centennial.....

Although I love "Dear Ole' Grambling", I look at it totally different now. I went back to homecoming recently and didn't recognize the campus or the atomosphere.

I went to Michigan State for grad school and while the social scene wasn't on and popping, a lot of things were handled differently. I registered in 5 minutes, over the phone. I had housing, I had my stipend/fellowship ready for me when I got there, and on and on and on. But strangely enough, even though I lived in Detroit after I graduated (1 hour away from MSU), I NEVER went to homecoming, but I would go all the way back to Louisiana for Grambling's homecoming or the Bayou Classic. I guess that speaks to the impact that HBCU's have on our lives.

Wonderful1908 06-22-2007 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTMystique (Post 1471626)
Well, I went to Grambling for undergrad (in the late 80's) and when I got down there (all the way from Michigan), I was so excited to be associated with an HBCU with so much history. My excitement wore off real soon once I saw how money was being mismanaged and how nepotism ran rampant in the administration. Don't get me wrong, I am all for hooking people up, but they need to at least be QUALIFIED for the job.

At Grambling, our President left under strange circumstances and then that started a "revolving door" of Presidents for the next 15 years. Then we all heard about the accredidation fiasco, and Gramblinites know about the "buy a brick" scam leading up to our Centennial.....

Although I love "Dear Ole' Grambling", I look at it totally different now. I went back to homecoming recently and didn't recognize the campus or the atomosphere.

I went to Michigan State for grad school and while the social scene wasn't on and popping, a lot of things were handled differently. I registered in 5 minutes, over the phone. I had housing, I had my stipend/fellowship ready for me when I got there, and on and on and on. But strangely enough, even though I lived in Detroit after I graduated (1 hour away from MSU), I NEVER went to homecoming, but I would go all the way back to Louisiana for Grambling's homecoming or the Bayou Classic. I guess that speaks to the impact that HBCU's have on our lives.

I agree I loved Southern despite the foolishness, but I also think I could tolerate it at 20 years old. I am almost 30 and I can't deal with that now. I graduate from PVAMU this fall and don't think I will want much to do with the school after I finish which is so sad. HBCU's produce some our brightest and most successful people, but if they want to keep them and bring prestige and class to their schools they are going to have to step up their game!

NinjaPoodle 06-22-2007 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTMystique (Post 1471626)
Well, I went to Grambling for undergrad (in the late 80's) and when I got down there (all the way from Michigan), I was so excited to be associated with an HBCU with so much history. My excitement wore off real soon once I saw how money was being mismanaged and how nepotism ran rampant in the administration. Don't get me wrong, I am all for hooking people up, but they need to at least be QUALIFIED for the job.

At Grambling, our President left under strange circumstances and then that started a "revolving door" of Presidents for the next 15 years. Then we all heard about the accredidation fiasco, and Gramblinites know about the "buy a brick" scam leading up to our Centennial.....
Although I love "Dear Ole' Grambling", I look at it totally different now. I went back to homecoming recently and didn't recognize the campus or the atomosphere.

I went to Michigan State for grad school and while the social scene wasn't on and popping, a lot of things were handled differently. I registered in 5 minutes, over the phone. I had housing, I had my stipend/fellowship ready for me when I got there, and on and on and on. But strangely enough, even though I lived in Detroit after I graduated (1 hour away from MSU), I NEVER went to homecoming, but I would go all the way back to Louisiana for Grambling's homecoming or the Bayou Classic. I guess that speaks to the impact that HBCU's have on our lives.

Sister-Greek, could you pm me about the scam. I was there 89-90.

1908Revelations 06-22-2007 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1466483)
but going to Howard and finding out that everyone there were HNICs humbled her and boosted her at the same time.

There is something to be said about walking the halls of a school and seeing historical pictures of accomplished Blacks on the wall, and to walk into a classroom and your prof looks like you. Not to mention the scores of Black students all striving to achieve greatness.

That was one of the things I loved about attending Tuskegee!!! When I had to transfer I was :mad::mad::mad::mad:x100! But I LOVED being there and knowing that BTW and other influential AfAm's put that school together. I may have lived in the oldest dorm on campus, but I loved every minute of being there.:)

AKA_Monet 06-22-2007 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Wonderful1908 (Post 1471643)
I agree I loved Southern despite the foolishness, but I also think I could tolerate it at 20 years old. I am almost 30 and I can't deal with that now. I graduate from PVAMU this fall and don't think I will want much to do with the school after I finish which is so sad. HBCU's produce some our brightest and most successful people, but if they want to keep them and bring prestige and class to their schools they are going to have to step up their game!

Well Soror, the trick is that you actually get a graduate degree, presumably a Doctorate+ at a PWI, then you are s'pose to come back!!! :rolleyes: ;)

Spelman has asked be a twice to come back.

My husband has been asked several times to come back.

Neither one of us want to live in Atlanta anymore. Nothing against the ATL, just don't want to live there anymore.

ladygreek 06-22-2007 10:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Eclipse (Post 1471507)
Ladygreek, you really think I sound defensive? :confused: I certainly don't see it that way. What makes you feel that?

I don't know. To me it just felt as if you thought people were wrongly attacking Spelman. I'm glad that was not the case, because I think this thread had been very enlightening.

nonchalant 06-22-2007 10:44 PM

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Originally Posted by 1908Revelations (Post 1472009)
That was one of the things I loved about attending Tuskegee!!! When I had to transfer I was :mad::mad::mad::mad:x100! But I LOVED being there and knowing that BTW and other influential AfAm's put that school together. I may have lived in the oldest dorm on campus, but I loved every minute of being there.:)

I love Tuskegee. I feel like an honorary student because I was there so much. "Don't need no competition. All we need is pride, so get on that Skegee train and ride ride ride ride. Get on that Skegee train. Hey Hey Hey!!!"

"The T, the U, S-K-E, the G double E. Tuskegee. Wooo, wooo, woo"

I also love those Gamma Kappa AKAs strutting their stuff by their tree.

dst2004 06-24-2007 08:46 PM

[QUOTE=Live_Wire17;1459376]That's right...if you can survive registration at a HBCU...you can survive ANYTHING! j/k (but serious)

You are so right! I am proud to say that I attended a HBCU as well. I couldn't have made a better choice. While attending college, I made lifetime friends as well.

Wonderful1908 06-24-2007 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet (Post 1472020)
Well Soror, the trick is that you actually get a graduate degree, presumably a Doctorate+ at a PWI, then you are s'pose to come back!!! :rolleyes: ;)

Spelman has asked be a twice to come back.

My husband has been asked several times to come back.

Neither one of us want to live in Atlanta anymore. Nothing against the ATL, just don't want to live there anymore.

You know it shouldn't have to be like that! There wa a time I couldn't even go to a PWI in Houston, HBCU's should want to produce more doctors!

Animate 06-24-2007 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by nonchalant (Post 1472055)
I love Tuskegee. I feel like an honorary student because I was there so much. "Don't need no competition. All we need is pride, so get on that Skegee train and ride ride ride ride. Get on that Skegee train. Hey Hey Hey!!!"

"The T, the U, S-K-E, the G double E. Tuskegee. Wooo, wooo, woo"

I also love those Gamma Kappa AKAs strutting their stuff by their tree.

<---------- Tuskegee graduate! :D

AKA_Monet 06-25-2007 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Wonderful1908 (Post 1472974)
You know it shouldn't have to be like that! There wa a time I couldn't even go to a PWI in Houston, HBCU's should want to produce more doctors!

You are right... But with Affirmative Action, the other schools could dance circles and outcompete us versus when we were segregated. That's a whole 'nother conversation.

The best most HBCU's can hope for is being filters for the larger schools they partner with in the city...

Unless you are Bethune-Cookman that can take an immediate lock on the area. The nearest larger university in it's class is maybe Orlando... But you have University of Florida, Florida State and few smaller schools dotted. University of South Florida and Miami University. Jacksonville, too. And you will be competing against FAMU for dollars. To me, the president of Bethune-Cookman made a very strong strategic alliance making the school a Master's bearing university in Florida. I think it is great and very wise. Not to be biased, but the president before her did not have the foresight. Believe me, I KNOW! :rolleyes:

Eclipse 06-25-2007 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1472050)
I don't know. To me it just felt as if you thought people were wrongly attacking Spelman. I'm glad that was not the case, because I think this thread had been very enlightening.

I did not feel that people were attacking Spelman, I just hate for misinformation to get out there about something that I love and hold dear. I am sure you understand that. I was just asking for some clarification on the paperbag thing.

Live2Serve 05-21-2008 12:54 AM

"Spelman thy name we praise..."

NonGreekOne 06-03-2008 02:47 AM

i don't think what she said was ignorant. it was just her harsh opinion. some Blacks don't wannabe around all Blacks all the time. i'd prefer a pwi to a hbcu because they're all the south and those southern accents aint the business.
don't feel bad. your degree is just as good as a pwi.

akadoll1908 06-03-2008 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTMystique (Post 1471626)
Well, I went to Grambling for undergrad (in the late 80's) and when I got down there (all the way from Michigan), I was so excited to be associated with an HBCU with so much history. My excitement wore off real soon once I saw how money was being mismanaged and how nepotism ran rampant in the administration. Don't get me wrong, I am all for hooking people up, but they need to at least be QUALIFIED for the job.

At Grambling, our President left under strange circumstances and then that started a "revolving door" of Presidents for the next 15 years. Then we all heard about the accredidation fiasco, and Gramblinites know about the "buy a brick" scam leading up to our Centennial.....

Although I love "Dear Ole' Grambling", I look at it totally different now. I went back to homecoming recently and didn't recognize the campus or the atomosphere.

I went to Michigan State for grad school and while the social scene wasn't on and popping, a lot of things were handled differently. I registered in 5 minutes, over the phone. I had housing, I had my stipend/fellowship ready for me when I got there, and on and on and on. But strangely enough, even though I lived in Detroit after I graduated (1 hour away from MSU), I NEVER went to homecoming, but I would go all the way back to Louisiana for Grambling's homecoming or the Bayou Classic. I guess that speaks to the impact that HBCU's have on our lives.


I graduated from Grambling in 2000 and nothing has change since you left!


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