you dont know what it stands for.......dont assume.....:rolleyes:

And you obviously can't read the title of this thread....it didn't say aka_monet's dating advice, did it? :rolleyes:

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Dear Cashmoney,

There was a recent story on CNN about a guy being accused of stalking because he attached a GPS device to his girlfriend's car. http://www.cnn.com/2004/US/West/09/0....ap/index.html
Can you give us some advice about technology-mediated relationships? Is there anything wrong with what the guy did, or should he have just attached the cell phone to the car's power supply?

Say IF you don't really like a certain girl but you are just dating her to get a piece of a$$, yet she's not giving it up, and showing no signs that she will in the near future, How long do you stay with her before you give up or just get tired of her?


just trying to figure out if the current boy is only after sex.

There's nothing wrong with it if it's warrented. From a guy's view, monotoring email,cellphone records,voice conversations are all acceptable if it's a serious relationship.

If he's a pimp, 1-2 weeks tops. If he's your average guy or a loser.....he could stay with you for months.

WTF?? :eek: How is that ever acceptable? I don't care how serious it ever gets, none of my boyfriends ever had the nerve to do this and if they had I think I'd probably punch them in the face. I would never dream of doing that kind of thing to a guy that's sick. :rolleyes:

Kiki, when he says "from a guy's view," he means "from my view (but I'm going to pretend we all do it so I don't seem so creepy)."

It's not, and I'm like you, if a guy did that to me, he'd be cut off. I was involved--I guess you'd call it that--with a guy once who managed to get the password to my e-mail and he actually checked it several times a day for a long time before I figured out what he was up to. He found e-mails from one of my guy friends, and started writing to this guy, trying to make sure that I wasn't cheating on him! I was fit to be tied when I found out.

Odds are it happened to you and you just dont know it. Most guys check up on their girls if they're in a serious relationship but arent married. Whether its riding by their house seeing if they're really home and not lying about being somewhere they really arent or if its checking their email seeing if they still talk to ex-boyfriends they're keeping on the back burner......it's acceptable from a guy's viewpoint. Women do sneaky sneaky things. Older guys realize by our age women are slicker than us. It takes us a little longer to figure that out for ourselves than it does women...but eventually we catch on.

Ummmmm, last time I checked I thought you had a vagina. Listen, youngin, you don't know shit about a guy's view. Thats what makes women so stupid in a sense.....you think you know everything but you really don't. Its just women are a little more devious and backstabbing then men are.....thats why they think they know everything.

My point exactly.......most guys do stuff like this but girls dont realize it. Thats why we're reluctant to seriously date women. If we're not seriously dating and we're just fucking, stuff like that doesnt go on. But when you seriously date and bring feelings in it all, that kind of stuff starts happening.

So take a lesson, ladies, if you don't want shit like that going on....dont pressure a guy into seriously dating by holding out on the pussy. It'll save both of you a lot of headaches.

So you're saying its OK even if the guy has nothing to suspect?

Maybe I'm in the minority here, but to me, I guess it's one thing if a person (whether it's a guy or girl) does things like that just for no reason other than being snoopy and psycho, and another if the person has reason to believe the other person in the relationship is doing something really bad. (like if they have reason to believe the other person is cheating or maybe taking part in something highly illegal)

ETA: overly insecure people don't count in the above comment.. they would fall in the snoopy & psycho category :p

All guys are after sex. If you have more to offer he might consider you. If you do date and you don't put out then words gets around too. Heck you're in a lose, lose situation if you ask me. If you put out, you're a ho and if you don't, you've got issues.

-Rudey