I'm gone for twelve hours, and this is what happens! Y'all are dead wrong. North Carolina has nothing to do with my change of heart.

I have prayed long and hard about this situation, and I know that the Lord has someone out there better for me. I thought about the baggage that he's carrying. Dang, it's a lot. He's been married TWICE and he has two kids by two different women. I don't know anything about that lifestyle. Quite frankly, I never wanted to deal with that lifestyle. I truly believe that he's a great guy. He's so cute! I like him a lot, but there are a lot of cute guys with a lot of great things going on, but that doesn't necessarily mean that he's a great guy for me.

Sooooo, that's why I'm where I am. I think it's best to nip in the bud now, instead of kickin' with him some more and start developing feelings for him. We're already super close--we can talk about any and everything. I just want it to stay that way, without any intimacy.

So there you have it.

BTB87, I wanted to see you so badly! I was kickin' it with a soror that graduated from A&T, her husband, and my sister. Now, y'all don't have to assume that somebody else caught my attention! Y'all are too funny for me!

Hey girl!
 

Del, I wanted to meet up with you too! Who knows - maybe next year? I'm just glad you had fun up in Aggieland!

TonyB and Ladygreek, I can vouch that no money has changed hands, so no, I'm not covering for her. Not even a discussion of it.

Dang! I shoulda thought of that before I went to NC! :( Coulda had my car payment for the month!

Oooh listen to you! I thought we were tighter than that!!;)

I still have your number, so expect to get a phone call here and there!

Works for me! I look forward to it!

TonyB, I'm sorry frat, but we women hafta stick together! ;)

that's ok, Phirst Pham; I see now where the lines are drawn.

:) :)

Guess what Ol' Dude Did!!!
 

Tuesday night, I invited him over so we could talk. I told him that I think we should be friends and he said he "felt" like that would be best for the both of us because he doesn't want to hurt my father's ministry if anything went wrong. So we ended on a very nice note.

Wednesday night at Bible Class...he came with another woman and they sat by each other like HUSBAND AND WIFE almost! Technically, I shouldn't have been affected, and I really wasn't because he has that right. But dang, that fast!!! What do you all think?! Was he running game, Tony? Get ready to get your belt...

Del

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Sounds like you made the ABSOLUTE RIGHT choice! Tres tacky on his part!

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EXACTLY! Why should I be affected by this and he's the one with all the baggage?! I'm walking away squeaky clean. Praise the Lord on that!

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That low class so-n-so! :o :mad:

Thank you Jesus for allowing my sistah Delph998 to dodge this bullet. And here I was trying to giv this "man" :rolleyes: the benefit of the doubt.

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***SMH*** :mad:

Tacky, tacky, tacky.

He lost all cool points for that!!!

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We all were! And y'all know my daddy isn't happy!!!

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Hell yeah he was running game!!! Girl... why are you shocked? Oh you thought I was hating? I told you that man ain't mean you well.

The same thing he did to his first two wives, he would've done to you. Don't fall for that "game" anymore.

A MAN WILL DO WHAT YOU ALLOW HIM TO DO.

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Ummm, I didn't think you were hating. Never said that ever. I thought you were voicing your opinion like everybody else.


And I allowed him to take me out on a date. Nothing serious happened beyond that point, so I still don't see myself as getting played. Mistake made, lesson learned. Thanks for your advice.

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Me too. :mad:

Oh well, lesson learned.

Okay Del, our meeting is cancelled.

*scowling as I load my gun to go looking for ol dude* :rolleyes: