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Originally posted by Love_Spell_6
How can you tell if a brother is just hanging out with his boys or if he's really on the DL??
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There isn't any surefire method.
Cuz he could be hanging out and chillin. Out on the DL. Or out hanging with his DL boys.
For clarity, I am a heterosexual man that is interested in women of color only.
The main thing that I believe each lady, well everyone needs to do is pray. And ask for the ability to discern what your partner's intentions and interests are. Then listen to your intuition.
When it comes to relationships there are two forces at odds with each other. Your Head versus your Heart.
Your head tries to make the best of any situation. It erroneously rationalizes certain situations and sometimes will cause you to stick around far longer than you truly should. Your head makes relationship decisions based on what is best for you visually or physically.
Your heart bears the burden of the results. It always shows the scars of a bad relationship and wears the badge of pride when in a good relationship. Your heart never ever leads you astray. Many people confuse the signals coming from their head as signals coming from their heart. The heart tells you what you should do because it's at the center of the battle.
If you even slightly suspect your man of being on the DL. Sit him down. Have an honest conversation.
If you're still not satisfied listen to his farts. There was a comedian on Comic View that gave you his scale. Or do what most females do when they suspect a man of sleeping with another women smell his P-Unit. If he smells fresher there than the rest of his body he's doing something with a man, female or something else all together.
I hope that answered your question. If you have any follow up questions please let me know.
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