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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
Oh, I know why some people might feel that way. I just don't think you'll NEVER fit because of those issues.
My point was that recruitment is less of a "magical we just clicked" thing than people make it out to be.
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But we tell PNMs to look for connection and chose chapters based on where they feel most comfortable. We want them to pick a chapter that they feel a connection with rather than a chapter that is a good fit on paper, right? We say things like "where would you feel most comfortable lounging in your pajamas and without any makeup on".
We have a tendency to tell PNMs BOTH that they could be happy in almost any house, AND to follow their heart. I think the go-where-you-feel-comfortable thing is an attempt to counter tent talk and PNMs selecting chapters based on reputation.