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Originally Posted by preciousjeni
Right - so, this issue is still not one for the family. It's something that the abused spouse would need to come to terms with. We don't need to concern ourselves with whether our actions please our families if we are really making healthy choices. If we aren't making healthy choices, pleasing or displeasing our families shouldn't be a priority. The priority should be figuring out what our issues are.
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Don't insist that everyone subscribe to YOUR system of beliefs. Everyone has a different relationship with their family. Maybe to you, they are not so important in the scheme of things. To me, they are. And sometimes they do know best. I believe there is a way to have them and me be happy...that's important to me, and obviously not to you, but don't be offensive about it.