Rec question
I am a PNM rushing this fall. I ran across a blog written by a sorority active who writes about sorority-related advice. I read the section she had about recs, and she said that if a sorority has a rec for you, they are REQUIRED to invite you back to day 2, and therefore since so many invitations will be reserved for girls who have recs, girls without recs are at a huge disadvantage. She also said to tell your rho chi if you had a rec to a house but weren't invited back.
Is this true? From what I've read on Greekchat, I don't think it is. But reading it in context it did not sound like she meant that this was specific to one school or sorority. However, since I am going into recruitment with not a single rec, this has me pretty worried. I wanted to check with you guys before panicking! |
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it is not true. neither is the information she posted about legacies.
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Girls with recs get cut all the time. Recs do not guarantee the PNM an invite for day 2. Recs do help, but they by no means give you an automatic pass to day 2. If a PNM is dropped by a house, it's suggested that she indicate as such in a thank you note to the woman who wrote her that rec. Recruitment counselors have nothing to do with that. What school does this chick go to? |
I would not put much credence in what you read in that blog. There are multiple errors, and possibly represent one person's experience with her one chapter.
Just as with anything else, you can't always trust what you read on the internet. (except greekchat of course...) |
This is NOT TRUE.
If you think about it, at a big school in the SEC like Ole Miss or Bama, 99% of the girls have recs. The sororities could not possibly invite back EVERY SINGLE girl who has one. It's impossible, since they can only invite back so many women each round. The part about recruitment counselors is particularly laughable. Please do not think that your recruitment counselor has the power to do anything if you get cut from a sorority. There is nothing she can do about it. If you walk up to your recruitment counselor and tell her "I got cut from XYZ, but I have a rec for them, can you tell them that they have to invite me back" she's going to look at you like you're crazy. |
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Oh wow. Yeah I would caution PNMs against taking any of that seriously.
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Reading those is slightly aggrevating.. I agree with KSUViolet.. PNMs really need to be careful with what they're finding through oh so VERY reliable media..
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Read her recruitment story, she claims to be a legacy to Alpha Phi because her sister in law is a member. Just because a rec is written doesn't mean that a) it is a favorable one b) they received it or care what the alumna thinks or c) that even if there's a good one, it can be canceled out by a NO REC.
The grammar and spelling, not so impressive, neither are the pictures of them in bras at a serenade. |
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I can't think of a sorority that counts sisters-in-law as legacies. |
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It is blogs like these that can actually hurt some unsuspecting but completely worthy girl in recruitment. The information is mostly incorrect, the terminology is incorrect, and I hope she isn't a creative writing or journalism major. Who gives it 24 hours for the blog owner, or an anonymous person here saying we're mean and defending it to show up? |
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Back to the girl's website: She seems to know very little about what she's talking about, like, to the point that I have to wonder if she is actually in a sorority at all. I mean, in her rush story she has a photo of a group of people and comments disdainfully that she would have had people like them as friends were she not in a sorority. I hate that people are getting rush advice from blogs like that. |
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